I am coming up on ten years of marriage. Holy crap! Did I just type that? Yep. 10 years. Not an insignificant length of time these days. Makes one wonder, how do we keep the flame alive? Well, personally…DH and work at it. Yes we are both a bit out of shape, but we make a point to prioritize us. We go to dinner together. Spend time together. Vacation together. You might notice a key word here…together. LOL!

We also touch each other. We hold hands at dinner. We hug, we kiss, we are intimate. Sure I wear lingerie and he puts on his sexy outfit (no I will not explain that!), but there is so much more to it than those elements alone. What I want to know is, what do you do to keep that flame alive?